2 Timothy 3:6-7 (NIV)
6 They are the kind who worm their way into homes and gain control over gullible women, who are loaded down with sins and are swayed by all kinds of evil desires, 7 always learning but never able to come to a knowledge of the truth.
Perhaps the reason that there are so many divorced, unmarried and spinster women in some of our Apostolic type churches is that they have been shamed, embarrassed, guilt-ridden, threatened and ridiculed into absolute submission and servitude to their godlike Pastor and religious institutions or church facilities.
I have been studying this ungodly phenomenon for some time now, and it is my educated observation that some religious leaders regardless of their façade of good intentions have allowed themselves and their churches to be idolized and their congregants enslaved to them, their false doctrines, their misinterpretation of Scripture and their ideologies on marriage and marriage after divorce. Some Pastors have perpetuated and exemplified the same domineering, judgmental, controlling and violent spirit of an abusive husband over the females of their congregations. In a real sense, they are committing the hedonistic practice of spiritual polygamy and religious idolatry where the woman regards them as their Husband-Priests and the Church Institution as her home to which she must serve diligently and faithfully or face being condemned and ostracized or excommunicated by her Priest (Pastor) or church institution and its fellowship. Many women have unknowingly been seduced into an abusive relationship and a substitute marriage.
How can any real man accept and marry any woman who is already married to another man? How can any REAL MAN give himself to a woman who is more severely devoted to her Pastor-husband and his church institution than to him?
There can be only one man-priest in a godly marriage. Regardless of how inadequate he may be or how unsaved his current condition may be, God made him to be the head of the woman and the home and not to be second fiddle to any other man or priest with regards to his wife and family.
Ephesians 5:22-24 Complete Jewish Bible
22 Wives should submit to their husbands as they do to the Lord; 23 because the husband is head of the wife, just as the Messiah, as head of the Messianic Community, is himself the one who keeps the body safe. 24 Just as the Messianic Community submits to the Messiah, so also wives should submit to their husbands in everything.
Women have to wake-up to the deceptions of Satan and Become More Aware of the Subtle and Clandestine System of Wickedness That Has infiltrated The Christian Faith in the name of holiness and sexual purity while perverting both. (Mathew 7:21-23) Women must be made aware of the satanic system of false Christian faiths and doctrinal practices that have robbed them of their childbearing years and of their intended male spouses and of knowing the love of a REAL Man. Women must be made aware of the devil’s devices of stealing, killing and destroying them. Some folks already know deep down in their souls that there is something wrong with their Christian religion and its doctrine of forbidding the marriage of morally righteous and legitimate divorcees. They feel it in their emptiness and unmarried lives. They are constantly trying to convince themselves and others of their doctrine that forbids marriage to a morally legitimate divorcee. (No Such Example or Practice Exist In Holy Scripture Text).
God is LOVE. God is LIFE. God Is Forgiveness. God is Peace. God is happiness and God is ONE. In CHRIST, ALL CAN BE MADE NEW AGAIN. Amen.
God made us – Male and Female – to be “ONE” like Him. And we are designed by Father YHVH to be drawn to the opposite sex for our good as well as for our good pleasure. And He has not written or created any statute or LAW that would hinder or oppose His divine institution of real divine love, marriage and family. God is absolutely just and righteous and He would never punish the innocent along with the ungodly or guilty. Only a unsaved human mind and twisted carnal spirit would conjecture that GOD would forbid marriage between a man and woman because one or both of them have had former spouses. The emphasis is on “Former” – none existence and not viable or in the present.
Parenthetically, we know that GOD’S WORD and LAW are Eternal and they do not contradict themselves. However, many believers are confused and fooled about marriage after divorce because they do not know the WORD of TRUTH. I urgently recommend that we study and read Deuteronomy 24:1-4 and remember that if our theology or ideology can dismiss God’s Eternal Word in any way, then we are not believers but we are doubters. If God’s WORD is found to be untrue in any part, then it is suspect and unreliable in its entirety.
Regardless of being the victim of adultery and/or infidelity, women and men alike are encouraged by the Holy Scriptures to marry and serve the needs of each other within the parameters of God’s Purpose and Design for men and women.
I think it is a sad and heinous reality that so many beautiful and well-intentioned females and potentially godly mothers and wives are subject to dark powers that sit on the pulpit of their religious Christian experience and forbid them to marry divorcees or to marry again after being divorced. It is sinful that so many women are emotionally scarred and sexually twisted by doctrines of demons and controlling, unsaved, confused and clueless spiritual leaders. (1 Timothy 4:3)
Without realizing it, many women have turned their Pastors into their pimps and their idol gods. No REAL MAN wants that kind of woman for a spouse. Her loyalties are divided and her love for him – if she truly loves him – is tainted by the scent of another man or controlling Christian institution.
Furthermore, it is my confirmed observation that many of these spiritually and institutionally enslaved women have turned to other acts of sexual expression and gratification that are not natural and are worse and more damnable than the misconceived offenses of marrying a legitimately divorced man or engaging in natural sex with an intended spouse. Many of these deceived women practice oral sex under the delusion that they are still pure and holy as long as they don’t have vaginal sex. They are grossly mistaken.
Satan, through some of his Christian ministers disguised as angels of light, has turned many well-intentioned and initially pure and holy women into something base, confused, perverted, filthy, disgusting, lost and angry.
If this is you in any way, shape or manner, please REPENT!
GOD Loves You Enough To Allow You To Be Loved By Somebody Who Truly Loves You. But It Is Totally Up To You.
We live in an imperfect and wicked world with more lies and deceptions confronting us every day. If God sends you someone or if God allows a man to find you and he is willing to love you like Christ loves His Bride, then I suggest that you forsake all others – including the Pastor and His Church if necessary – and give yourself an opportunity to be all that you were created be in Christ as opposed to being limited to what some Pastor or church dictates that you should be.
And as you move out of Christian slavery, spiritual darkness, spiritual insanity and sexual perversions into the purpose and Spirit of YHVH’S Holy Truth and LOVE, remember that your peace, justification, salvation and righteousness comes only from God through Christ and not from your Pastor, church, family, community or acquaintances.
Because GOD Loves You I Tell You The Truth.
You deserve to be loved, desired, cherished and admired by a man who truly will lay down his life for you. (Ephesians 5:23-25)
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